You’re a parent, school volunteer, baseball or soccer coach, snack-packer, chauffeur, bedtime storyteller, and miracle worker at your job. You've been up since 6 a.m., made breakfast, answered emails, wrangled the kids, helped with homework, and finally collapsed into the couch—only to realize it’s nearly midnight. And guess what? In just a few hours, you’ll do it all over again.
If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “Stop the merry-go-round, I want to get off!”—you’re not alone.
In the hustle of daily life, it’s easy to push your own needs to the bottom of the list. Many of us—especially caregivers and helpers—end up running on empty without realizing it. The irony? When we don’t care for ourselves, we can’t keep caring for everyone else.
Just like the flight attendant says: Put your oxygen mask on first before helping others.
That’s not selfish—it’s essential.
So let’s reframe it: what if you gave yourself the same care, attention, and kindness you give everyone else? What if you simply treated yourself as equally important?
Here are a few ways to start doing just that:
1. Protect Your Physical Health
Sleep. Move. Nourish. These are your non-negotiables. When you’re rested, active, and well-fed, everything feels a little more manageable. Start small: go to bed 20 minutes earlier, take a short walk, or prep a quick, healthy lunch for yourself just like you do for your kids.
2. Honor Your Emotional Well-Being
You deserve more than just surviving the day. You deserve support, laughter, and moments of connection. Reach out to a friend. Watch something that makes you belly laugh. Cry if you need to. And yes, give yourself permission to feel all the feelings without guilt.
3. Schedule Joy
We plan appointments, errands, and meetings—why not plan joy? Put something fun on your calendar each week, even if it’s just 20 minutes. A hobby, a coffee date, a favorite playlist, and a solo drive—whatever fills your cup.
4. Cut the Busywork
Not everything that fills your time is worth your energy. Take stock of those “busy but not really meaningful” tasks or obligations. Can they be minimized, delegated, or just... let go? Free up space for what truly matters.
5. Combine Wellness with Connection
Family walk after dinner? Dance party while cleaning the kitchen? Calling a friend while you fold laundry? Small moments can multitask in a meaningful way, bringing health and joy to everyone involved.
6. Get Creative with Challenges
Feeling stuck? Look for new ways to solve old problems. Trade babysitting with a friend. Order groceries online to save time. Meal prep on Sundays. Ask for help. You don’t have to figure it all out alone.
7. Practice Politely Saying “No”
Every time you say yes to something, you’re saying no to something else—maybe even your own well-being. Your time is valuable. Your energy is sacred. Let your yes be intentional and your no be confident.
8. Start Small and Build Momentum
You don’t need to overhaul your life overnight. Pick one area to focus on—maybe sleep, movement, or quiet time. Make small, consistent deposits in your own well-being bank. The returns are bigger than you think.
Final Thought:
Your life is like a checking account—you need to keep making deposits if you want to avoid burnout. Even 10 minutes of movement, a nourishing meal, or a few deep breaths can start to fill your tank. And as you care for yourself more intentionally, you’ll find you’re not only showing up better for others, you’re showing up for you.
Because you matter, too. Always!
